Relationships take work. It is not a bad sign if your relationship needs help - all relationships require nurturing, work, and support. Couple therapy can provide structure and guidance for you to move forward in areas where you feel stuck. Sometimes the goal for therapy is to help the relationship heal and last, and sometimes the goal can be to better understand your needs so you can feel more confident in the decision you make to stay, leave, or work on your relationship. Common focuses of couple therapy include:
Improving communication and conflict management skills to help you feel heard and reduce the hurt caused by conflict.
Developing strategies for connection and intimacy.
Recovering from a betrayal, trauma, or loss affecting your relationship.
Navigating the transition to marriage or parenthood.
Creating shared expectations and healthy boundaries for work/life balance, extended family relationships, or co-parenting.